For me there are different ways of humilation or dealing with humiliating situations. I’ve always preferred the way in which she has free will and bear on purpose or under the defined conditions of a situation. She may not always be able to control them, but she can always escape from the situation if she wants to.

Some prefer to inflict humiliation or pain in a controlled situation where she has previously consented to but unable to escape within the session. For example because she is tied up.

I’m different. I get a tremendous amount of excitement out of the situation as long as she has the ability to walk away at any time, but she doesn’t. That’s when humiliation is interesting for me because it means that we both follow the same mindset in this situation. I find that exciting and beautiful. And so that the text doesn’t hurt too much, here’s a woman who simply lives it. Source