• Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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        Guilty.

        Having no actual presence on social media is considered “creepy” by modern social standards, instead of what I view it as: more secure.

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            I meant no actual presence on mainstream social media where I’m not using a pseudonym, and exchange profiles with the general public that I meet.

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            Forums are not social media. How is this hard to understand. Forums have existed for decades longer than social media and if you include forums in the definition of social media then you literally by definition include every comment section on every blog, news site, and even things like the FCC request for comments from citizens.

            It’s absolutely idiotic to include forums in that definition. You make the definition so wide as to be useless.

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              People have gotten confused and declared that any internet based activity that involves interaction is social media. Social media is centered on users (you follow other people, not topics, and people for whatever crazy reason use their real name), whereas there is absolutely no real reason to do that on a forum.

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                Social media is centered on users (you follow other people, not topics

                This is the exact reason I never became interested in Mastodon. Following people just isn’t my style. The only social media I use is YouTube (without an account) because apparently Lemmy isn’t social media.

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          I find avoiding social media helps reduce encounters with the insane side of people who somehow appear to be relatively normal in real life.

          For instance, I actually like my inlaws in real life, despite having some very different views than they do. On Facebook however, they’re complete fucking idiots that I wouldn’t give the time of day because they would just argue with me about it.

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            It’s odd how that proxy allows people to act feral. It’s like the behavior of a dog behind a fence.

            Though I’ll admit to trolling a little bit here and there, so maybe I’m not the best example.

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            It’s funny, I’m the opposite. In real life, I openly advocate for seizing the means of production and guillotining the rich, but I don’t do that on Facebook because I don’t want to get banned.

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          as far as i care, having social media makes you more likely to be insane, because of the aggressive amount of influence that these sites and applications hold over people.

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          Same, but you were talking about NewPipe. I assume you use that on your phone.

          And while you can disable the search history there, too, it often is convenient not to have to type the name of that thing you want to listen to while you’re driving, so many people leave it enabled.

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      The brain rotted mind doesn’t understand the lack of an infinite pit of o-face reaction videos to pick from.

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    Not even the wackiest scenario he’s done.

    Bro legit took this one incredibly seriously and talked about the consequences of having to explain sudden freak accident deaths to pre-schoolers and how conspiracy theories would proliferate about Reagan being responsible because supposedly he had pushed for the launch to stay on schedule even when issues came up because the plan was for him to make s phone call to the crew of the ship from the SotU address that year.

    Basically Reagan would go down in pop culture canon as being the man who murdered big bird, and whatever consequences that sprung from that would be the biggest shift vs present timeline instead of the obvious fact that big bird would be canonically dead since all the normal viewers would have seen him go up in a fireball and die.

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    I’m so happy to be out of the dating phase of my life. I wouldn’t stand a chance with my tinfoil hat settings like deactivated recommendations, ad- and js-blocking and auto-deleting all cookies when closing a tab.

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      What do you mean women don’t like a FOSS privacy-oriented user experience? Don’t they like going through 500 pages of documentation when Gentoo breaks only to realize all along that the problem was fixed by turning the computer off and on again?

      What do you mean men don’t like that either?? What kind of place is this?!

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      auto-deleting all cookies when closing a tab.

      You know, I would never use auto-delete cookies because I want to stay logged into sites. However I do wish there was an extension or something that would delete all cookies except for manually whitelisted sites. Then random news websites wouldn’t be able to easily track all my visits, but I could stay logged into sites.

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        What you want is a feature that all Firefox based browser have. I am not sure about chromium based but ik that brave also have it.

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            In Firefox or any browser based on it:
            Open settings > Privacy & Security
            Under “Cookies and Site Data” check the box. For exceptions click the “Manage Exceptions…” on the right.

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              Works great. Just wish it had an “export” button for the list so you could transfer the list between new installs/reinstalls

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      It turns out it’s harder to meet a privacy-conscious partner but they really do exist in large numbers. Back in my day the dating scene for this type was the weed dealer’s house/apartment, but now that it’s legal I don’t know what the replacement is. Probably ren fairs or lighter hobbies like kite flying meetups lol.

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      Why deactivate recommendations instead of being logged into YouTube using an email that exists only for the YT account?

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          But if it is collecting data on how to recommend video just to the account that is only used for YT, it seems like it is well partitioned.

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        I’m glad I’m old enough where I can actively pretend like I don’t know how to use technology.

        Like I was at a bar, and some weirdo asked if I was on Facebook and I shrugged and said I don’t understand technology and they go, “Totally makes sense at your age!”

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        I’d definitely lose interest in a conversation with someone who responded with that.

        They’re bad enough online.

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          Maybe smart people, but definitely someone who have probably won’t shut up about one of the following topics:

          1. Linux

          2. Anti corpo

          3. Ads on websites

          None of these are bad or unpopular things, mind you.

          It’s just a sign of someone shifted a liiiittle more extremist.

          They’ll probably nag at you to leave reddit to join their weird website called Lemmy. Maybe insist you use their to a Plex open source jellyfin server that only works 2/3 of the time.

          Of_course_i_know_him_hes_me.jpg

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      mine is

      Your watch history is off

      You can change your setting at any time to get the latest videos tailored to you. Learn more

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        I have it that way on desktop and just changed my setting on mobile, I didn’t know I could do that without logging in. On desktop YT keeps watch history even if you tell YT not to, recommendations being relevant gives it away.

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      I have ADHD.

      someone opens my Youtube as a litmus test

      “So we pray unto the holy beings that this child may not lose their way. For which many forsaken paths they may tred, nor what trends they may trod upon, that they alight on lightened road and partake only within golden rays.”

      “Also, just, like…ignore that 3am Pokemon rabbit ahem hole I went down when overtired.”

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      I watched this video because of you

      It was interesting 👀

      Made me want to taste test myself, am I doomed?

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        I dont think so. I shared this pic in a discord and literally seconds after a couple dudes started asking about the results of that test. I guess we all wonder that because I dont think the percentage of population using flavoured condoms is that high.

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    I actually have YouTube history turned off and rarely if ever watch something that I’m not subscribed to, namely, a maths nerd, two tech channels, some musical people and the guy who makes sausages.

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    I’m not logged in because I don’t want any suggestions! I’m using ReVanced of course.

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    It’s not. I spend too much time vetting and blocking right wing channels despite never watching any while logged in.

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      I have watch history turned off precisely to avoid getting personal recommendations because they have always sucked for me

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    You’re correct. Judging people based on an algorithm your have no way of knowing is indeed a red flag ma’am.