Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?
And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!
Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊
Cis guy here.
As per penetrating anus/vagina, the sensations are similar but not quite the same. I’d say I actually prefer vaginal penetration more - while vaginas are somewhat less tight, that’s not necessarily a bad thing, and in my case my dick is better stimulated with a vagina.
As per the description of sensations, I feel like they can be described in a similar way, and generally it’s like your dick is in a warm wet cushion, but the one that also grips the dick and stimulates it well. But anal is a bit rougher and harder and more “meaty”, and vaginal is a bit softer and actually “cushion-y” (both are generally soft and comfy though).
As per being anally fucked, it feels…interesting. Like, the strapon/dildo (didn’t try actual penis) isn’t felt as precisely as it would be if you grip it with your hand, and it rather feels like a sensation of fullness, of something inside causing you to feel good in the general area of it, and sending impulses straight to the penis, as well as getting sensations in the prostate area similar to when you consciously try to make your penis harder/do kegel exercises. Something along these lines.
Thanks for getting into the sensations! I think you did a good job describing them, I also have only tried with dildos.
For me the main thing is like you said sensation in the penis, it feels more swollen and sensitive than a normal erection, and over time if I don’t touch my penis it feels like what I’d imagine a balloon getting slowly inflated might feel like (even though the strength of my erection stays about the same, or sometimes even goes down a bit). And then around my anus the texture of it sliding in and out feels really nice, and the prostate pressure amplifies everything. It’s hard to put into words, it’s like the sensation of the pressure on it is like a blueish-white light radiating out from that spot and making everything nicer. But the feeling of fullness I don’t think does all that much in itself, it definitely feels nice but it moreso amplifies everything because I find penetration so hot, and I’m getting to experience a glimpse of it.
I think also, taking the time to relax and loosen up to get the dildo in makes a big difference (especially with the biggest one I have, I was looking it up the other day and I think it’s like 1.75", but I’m not sure if that’s diameter or circumference. The adam and eve listing just said lengthx1.75" insertable. I don’t remember the length). It’s like it forces me to get more into my body and the sensations, and get me into a headspace where I’m orienting my consciousness towards acceptance and relaxation and embracing the sensations I’m feeling, which now that I think of it reminds me a lot of some of the Qualia Research Institute descriptions of metta and equanimity and neural annealing (i highly recommend reading some of their stuff or watching some of their videos if you get the chance!)
Yeah you described it even further, and I generally agree. Also yes, anus itself as the muscle does feel the texture way stronger (which, btw, acts as a great reminder to lubricate very well).
Normally, the diameter is listed IIRC, and I generally understand the size of 1,75". I’m personally no size king though and go 1" as a comfort option and 1,4" when I want to feel it hard. Anything above that just feels straight uncomfortable no matter how much I relax.
I’ll check Qualia out on those terms, thank you!