• Slotos@feddit.nl
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    21 hours ago

    You don’t need to have kids to pass on values. The basic premise of your statement doesn’t hold up.

    • vaper@lemmy.world
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      20 hours ago

      Well, like I mentioned you still need some sort of interaction with kids. Or maybe influence their parents enough to have them indirectly pass on those values you imparted on them. But I still think that if the smartest, kindest, most compassionate people among us stop having kids… well then that’s not great for that next generation. I’ve just always felt that giving up one of the primary factors of life, reproduction, seems very defeatist. But on the other hand, if someone genuinely doesn’t want children then by all means don’t.

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        19 hours ago

        I know at least one friend that wants to adopt/foster once they’re ready, instead of having biological children.

        The justification was similar to what you said, where they want to pass on their values / legacy, but don’t care about the genetic side