She comments on the site “Long haired scruffy woodsman. Yes Please.” so I think the lack of shower and grooming gives him the scruffy, non groomed look. Not showering one day if your normally do does not exactly make you nasty. Im pretty sure my wife like me sometimes less groomed and wild but she also gets excited about very well groomed like when dressing up. Honestly I think its more about her mood than how I look.