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minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up41·5 months agoThese are all invaluable survival skills, NGL. It’s the resulting FFF hairtrigger readiness that’s fucking hell on the psyche, though.
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up30·5 months agoFight/Flight/Freeze (though, some even add Fawn to that)
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·5 months agoYeah, as a survivor of related experiences, finding out the latter two’d been recently added to this alliterative device was, frankly, a coldly epiphanous experience. 😅🤓
minus-squareBrundleFly2077@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5·5 months agoAh, okay. I thought you were UAPWE. I was right 👍🏻
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·5 months agoI am neither a writer nor an editor, though I certainly would prefer to be united (much less “international”, for that matter). 😶
minus-squareSabata@ani.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up5·5 months agoNot if I constantly dissociate, self medicate, and avoid people to the point where I literally didn’t process the threat.
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·5 months agoSounds like processing the threat happened, NGL.
minus-squareSabata@ani.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1·5 months agoI may just be stuck on an old one then.
These are all invaluable survival skills, NGL.
It’s the resulting FFF hairtrigger readiness that’s fucking hell on the psyche, though.
What is FFF?
Fight/Flight/Freeze (though, some even add Fawn to that)
Aww, fawn! 🥹
Yeah, as a survivor of related experiences, finding out the latter two’d been recently added to this alliterative device was, frankly, a coldly epiphanous experience. 😅🤓
Ah, okay. I thought you were UAPWE. I was right 👍🏻
I am neither a writer nor an editor, though I certainly would prefer to be united (much less “international”, for that matter). 😶
Not if I constantly dissociate, self medicate, and avoid people to the point where I literally didn’t process the threat.
Sounds like processing the threat happened, NGL.
I may just be stuck on an old one then.
You got this.