my girlfriend really doesn’t like my friend of several years. she is constantly snippy with him and she and her friends, i’ve heard, talk behind his back and say stuff about how annoying he is.
i was treated the exact same way when i was bullied, so it really got me reminded of that and i got a little upset but thought i overreacted.
i’m giving her the benefit of the doubt, just wanted to share that. i hope i’m dating a nice person and not secretly a bully.
edit: we broke up.
This is a tough one. If you have friends that have been with you through thick and thin and she didn’t like them, tough!
If other friends are maybe a little more like acquaintances, maybe the spouse of a friend you like so you tolerate them, then no big deal, but I think she needs to deal with them in a mature manner.
she broke up with me anyway… thank you!!
A lot of fish in the ocean. Good luck to you.