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Cake day: April 28th, 2024

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  • Honestly, I was happy my parents were being cheap and bought me a manual for my first car. It made driving automatics later on so easy and they were right at least a few times. They told me there would be times where I may be stuck if I didn’t know how to drive a manual. I ended up driving a few friends home in their manual at a time there were no taxis or ridesharing in our area.

    Like everyone said it becomes second nature, even if you’re learning automatic… You just have to manage your anxiety. The 3 people through out my life who I know absolutely should not be on the road took multiple physical driving tests on an automatic but are so anxious on the road, they were a danger to others. I’m hoping your description above is just because you’re a new driver, experiencing new driver things. I was that scared and not very good either when I started and also was uncertain of myself. I’m happy I stuck with it and it does become second nature if your anxiety is within normal limits. Best wishes on your driving adventures








  • Since your hobby is gaming have you tried LAN events? If there are some you can go to, even afford to fly to, you can make friends IRL and keep them when you go back home. You know you have one thing in common with your potential new friends!

    Or join Discord groups! Join more social games like MMORPGs? I don’t game anymore but think of my gaming friends fondly as I got to know many over the years and find out things about them in and out of games :)