I’ll second Vincent’s suggestion. One person proposes three choices, the other either picks one or counters with three new choices. I also recommend having something on hand that takes zero preparation. For us that’s usually some charcuterie, tuna with crackers, or a leftover dish that can be served cold.
Looks like a spouse peeking in to say, “Are you on a call?” A very polite and considerate
man in a cat suitcat indeed.