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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I’m scared about the blowback.

    It was inevitable that eventually somebody would ‘fight back’ somehow.

    Now we have to deal with how all the idiots act, react and overreact.

    It won’t be pretty, but again, it was inevitable.

    The day of, when it happened, I watched the video… and then had to literally touch grass, walk it off, get some fresh air.

    Wife got home, wanted to see it, had the same reaction.

    I just don’t like watching people die, no matter who it is. But now and then I gaze into the void deliberately.



  • Any attempt at self-improvement is not pathetic. My phone suggested self-forgiveness, which also is key here.

    You are trying to be more aware and less impulsive. The key here is mindfulness, not that it’s easy to attain/achieve.

    I said self-forgiveness because beating yourself up for your perceived failures will also hold you back.

    Failure is key to success.

    I’ve made a little progress toward changing my internal monolog, and it has served me well. Be nicer to yourself and laugh off your failures lest the memory of them become baggage.

    My dad is a Buddhist. I never got good at meditation, but I recognize its value.

    But mainly, be kinder to yourself. Perfection was never an option, so why would you expect it from yourself?

    Relax. Breathe. You’ll figure things out, whether or not you achieve these goals.




  • Its made by smallish groups of people and isn’t focus-grouped to death.

    As such its not always perfect and its full of little details to enjoy, like Joe Lycett deciding to ‘steal’ something in each task, Rhod Gilbert’s solution to tying himself up, or Jason Mantzoukas… being Jason Mantzoukas.

    It isn’t that these things can’t be pre-planned or written, it’s that they’re more enjoyable because the audience knows these came from the pressure of being given an unknown task.

    It’s genuine.

    It’s an absolute casserole.