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Cake day: January 20th, 2025

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  • Sorry for you to go through this. I also had parents that always put me down and never encouraged me any way, but at least they didn’t do the comparing thing, that must have hurt.

    Just do your own thing and i would recommend trying to set boundaries with your parents - at least your dad seems to try to respect them (asking you if he might tell the high school coach), and i think his comment about you coming a long way was him acknowledging the hard work and motivation you put in, at least i read it that way - expressing stuff like that might not be his strong suit. Your mom might be a different beast tho.

    If your mom’s involvement in your activities is detrimental to your mental wellbeing, you might wanna tell her to stop talking like that about you, or you keep her out of the loop if you can. I don’t know if you are still living with them, and your options depend a lot on how dependent you are from them.

    (Also, please try using paragraphs. it really helps with readability of longer posts)


  • I agree with you, even if you are downvoted. I’ve wrecked more in-ear buds by (non-replaceable) broken cable than i can count, while i’m on my 3rd bluetooth headphone in about 10 years - i lost none of them, and the second one is still around as backup.

    The security is a thing that can be patched if it pops up and is only an issue if your OPSEC differs strongly from the common citizen, and the energy argument comes across like a purity test - the light in my fridge probably uses more energy.

    I would never go back to cable, especially since noise cancelling doesn’t work without a battery anyway - and i am very unhappy without noise cancelling.

    Also, i have a power bank where i can use 21600 Li-ion Battery cells as power source (and it doubles as charger for those cells) - on travels i take a few batteries with me, and even if i find myself for weeks without power, i will have it whenever i need it.


  • Mold = dust/residues + dampness. Clean your bottles, and keep them dry when out of use - you can keep water filled bottles pretty long in the fridge.

    My 4 year old bottles stay filled in the fridge; when a bottle travels with me, coming home i wash them with my bottle brush and a small amount of dish soap and either fill them right back up and put them in the fridge again, or i keep the cap off and let them dry thoroughly putting them upside down so droplets can get out. Anything else is just an invitation for mold.


  • I mean, i can relate to the feeling that technological advancement doesn’t fulfill a life and that there must be something else, but irrationality and hostility cannot be the answer - I believe that it IS a personal decision, but it excludes taking away rights from others or threatening them with throwing them from helicopters.

    Also, for those two it was a conscious decision, but their children do not have the luxury to decide for themselves what to believe in, taking away their right to decide - so in total i cannot condone their behavior or lifestyle.

    I grew up in a christian family, but not deeply religious. I had the pleasure of learning of all religions in school, even if there was a surplus of christian influence in school, i learnt of all the options. I decided that all of them were wrong; those kids will never know of another option until it’s time to give them something to hate.



  • Ok, since you keep shittalking about dbzer0.com, i want to add something here. (I’m a regular on dbzer0)

    First of all, we keep our instance pretty bot-free. It’s been a while since i registered, but all applications are getting reviewed before an account is active. We do have singular bots for administrative things, but you can be sure that db0 would stop obvious bot activity pretty fast.

    And regarding AI - it’s not that we go out into the fediverse and proselytize. We have a few communities regarding GenAI, but the opposite is the case: we 'Ä****

    had to implement a rule to stop external mass downvoting and brigading in those communities, because instead of an discussion about the image generated, external users started the (always the same) discussion about how evil GenAI is.vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvdgggggggggggggg