Your “wants” sounds nice, but let us not forget people work and get paid because someone else need it. Wages/salary what have you, is the abstract representation of how much you’ve helped someone/some company. So in my opinion, wages are one of the emergent mechanics born out of necessity to value someone’s help.
A post scarcity society like in star trek and the Orville could enable your vision. But for now, its all in fiction.
Liking fiat money, is definitely a red flag. I agree.