Im a man and Id say missionary is my favorite. I love looking my wife in the eyes (and the boobs), plus the combo of penis inside her and a hand rubbing her clit to be a guaranteed way to fast track her to orgasm, and missionary is the easiest way for me to do that.

Like a lot of the other women here, her favorite position is doggystyle, and Ill never complain about getting to watch her ass bouncing against me

That looks like a cake of white tea. There are tools called tea picks that can be used to break the leaves apart or break chunks off, but you can also use a dull knife or anything that lets you wedge it in between the leaves. The goal is to break the leaves apart while leaving them as individually intact as possible.

For brewing, water temp does matter but Im not very familair with white tea, I would suggest doing a quick internet search, or you can experiment with different temps between 170°F-ish and boiling. I would recommend starting with a tea infuser basket, that would allow you to steep the loose leaves and remove them when done steeping. You could also look into brewing it gongfu style with a gaiwan or similar brewing vessel, again do a search for gongfu and you will find a plethora of information about tea brewing that way.

The tea subreddit is very beginner friendly, if you are ok with using reddit you can pop over there too, there is a ton of information about brewing guidelines and tea identification

We have the Hitatchi corded version. It looks like its available on their website

Its a very popular toy but my wife and I both get a LOT of enjoyment from our magic wand

Id be happy to try my hand at modding !sex@lemmynsfw.com

I like these ideas alot. I think LemmyNSFW could use more discussion space to talk about sex, kinks, and generally taboo topics. Like you said BDSM often becomes the catch all category for many kinks and I dont think there is currently enough activity in LemmyNSFW to warrant splitting the community, provided the space remains inclusive for all

Idk if it’s because I hit puberty when scene girls were a thing, but the punk/alt style is so fucking hot. Tattoos, piercings, dyed hair, wallet chains, etc 😍😍 Like Hayley Williams checks every single box I have

Thanks for the tip!

Yeah we’ll definitely be sure to have something between us and the ground. Dont need any twigs or bugs disrupting anything!

And yeah its entirely her decision what gets posted. Personally, I have no concerns about people that I know finding the photos. Im an adult in a consentual sexual relationship, I wont go forcing it on anyone but if someone that knows me is browsing porn and sees it, I dont think theres anything to be embarrassed about. But thats my personal take on things and I know she is not as comfortable with that as I am. So while I encourage her and show her how positive these spaces can be, ultimately its not my call. Im definitely also biased but I think she would do pretty well on here

My wife and I have talked about branching out and being more adventurous in our sex lives this year. A top item on my list is doing it out in the woods while backpacking or camping, which should be doable once the weather gets nicer.

Another fantasy that is probably more of a longshot is having sex in a group setting. My wife and I were both eachothers firsts and while Im not necessarily looking to do a swap thing, I think it would be a lot of fun to fuck her while surrounded by other horny naked people doing their own thing. We’ve talked about doing something like that a few times and each time she seems a little cooler to the idea so that one might just stay a fantasy.

Finally I’d love to incorporate her more into the photos that I share. We have a nice collection of photos and videos of the two of us but she waffles about whether she is comfortable with the ones shes in being posted. I’m hoping I can convice her to test the waters but only if shes 100% comfortable.