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7 months agoYou bring up an interesting point in that the duration of the relationship may affect the reaction to the question. Maybe earlier in the relationship you’re still exploring so the sexual expectations haven’t solidified as much. On the other hand, maybe in a longer term relationship there’s more trust. I’m not sure what the normal is or if it leans either way.
We do anal sometimes but it’s not that common. I don’t attempt that frequently so when I do, it’s normally not turned down. But my experience there’s probably no particular reason outside of mood that she would or wouldn’t want it.