Hah, there’s always a time and place for chaos, but there’s also power and convenience in having a useful consistent format and metadata.

And that’s not censorship - the only suggestion so far which actually would restrict expression is the “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say it” one. The rest are just saying “please add this extra information ([M/F] tags, sources)” which is almost the opposite of censorship, or removing obsolete dead links.

I used to use certain NSFW video/GIF sharing forums, finding or making a thread dedicated to the kink and starting with examples. It’s also possible to cast a wider net (e.g. ‘leggings thread’) and then request more of a certain kink (‘animal-print leggings’).

I can’t give examples, I’m just not in the scene and the sites I know died long ago, and surely there are some around. I’m tempted to even do an analogue here, making a Lemmy community instead of a thread. I just don’t have the time or interest to moderate another site (I already manage too many)

On the subject of contrasts: You show me four women and I’d pick the one who is apparently different, every time. Three blondes and a brunette? Three brunettes and a blonde? Three sundresses and shorts and t-shirt? I’ll pick “the ___ one” every time.

I wonder if you can run a small scientific test, where the same two women each take turns as the odd one out.

I don’t, but I’m here because the discussion is better. I don’t even look at comments on most porn sites, including boorus. It’s just masturbation, or on certain boorus, derailing into [usually political] arguments.

Boorus generally have a search phrase to order by score. Scoring may be less in-your-face than on a Lemmy-like site, but it’s still usually good on booru sites to prioritze well-made art.

It’s surprising how they’re all themes of being dominated until ‘smell my feet’, a typically dominant act.