I recently read that RealVNC has a deal with raspian for remote access to any raspberry PI. They have a lite version with 3pc’s but I think as many pics as you own.

Process to enable it if you are using one of their os’

https://help.realvnc.com/hc/en-us/articles/360002249917-VNC-Connect-and-Raspberry-Pi#:~:text=RealVNC Server is included with,to control your Pi from.

Sorry for the silly questions but I’m new to this and still learning how this stuff works. Is there a guide for noobs to do this that you’re aware of? I own a domain and I’m trying to do exactly this.

Also, would you recommend traefik over nginx? I am told that if I want to use the skills in a professional environment I should learn nginx but I’ve read it doesn’t have an interface and the configuration is manual.

I’ve got pterodactyl running some game servers locally I’d like to open to my friends and this should be a secure way to do this.

I also read below I should use a DNS if I don’t have a static IP. Does that throw a wrench in all this?