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  • Fair enough, I think yours is also a valid interpretation.

    I just want to clarify: with “just be happy” energy, I meant the tendency of people to suggest seemingly simple fixes to others struggling with mental health. Even, if they work for oneself and even if it works statistically (for example sport is a good habit against depression), it feels like talking the problem down. But that is highly subjective of course.


  • Ok, what do you mean by checking myself first?

    I just commented on how I personally perceived the comic. I also said that I believe that the comic was made with good intentions.

    Ultimately, I am just someone on the Internet. I have no illusion that my comments here matter. Though, I do have first and second hand experience with depression and suicide if that matters, which it does not.

    And yes in many ways I am extremely privileged when it comes to this topic, e.g. my healthcare insurance is not tied to my employer as I don’t live in the US. I would like to know how that has anything to do with my comment above though.


  • What do you mean with “they just don’t want to”?

    Quitting your job, potentially losing your shelter and food supply is a hell of a risk. Presume one actually wants to get better, they first need to be well enough to handle such a risk. Otherwise, they are homeless and suicidal: A great recipe to get well /s


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    I do believe this was made with best intentions but it has major “just be happy” energy and is made from a position of privilege.

    Just getting a therapist for example is a huge battle. Having supportive friends is not ubiquitous. Changing jobs is risky and in certain financial circumstances almost impossible, especially with dependents.

    That said I approve of the message that without living there is no possibility of things getting better. My advice is to focus on small maybe even tiny victories daily making lifestyle changes where possible.