• metaconnoisseur@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 months ago

    The answer is definitely yes. The real interesting question is do they do it for the same reasons as men and do they do it with the same frequency as men?

    Based on my personal anecdotal experiences, they do it with lower frequency and with different reasons.

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        8 months ago

        For instance men may commonly like the fantasy of joining the two “lesbians” whereas women may not. Just a possible scenario I have no data.

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          8 months ago

          Yeah in my experience men like to fetishize lesbians for the idea of multiple women and for the idea of “switching our sides”. From what I hear straight women like gay men more for the idea that they’re more comfortable with femininity and vulnerability as well as mutual attraction to men. Ironically I hear bi men have a wildly different experience and are prone to being rejected over it.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 months ago

    I think when you ask “does anybody” anything the answer is yes.

    I don’t find gay sex arousing, no. But don’t mind if a guy is bi, it’s not a turnoff either.