Yeah in my experience men like to fetishize lesbians for the idea of multiple women and for the idea of “switching our sides”. From what I hear straight women like gay men more for the idea that they’re more comfortable with femininity and vulnerability as well as mutual attraction to men. Ironically I hear bi men have a wildly different experience and are prone to being rejected over it.
For instance men may commonly like the fantasy of joining the two “lesbians” whereas women may not. Just a possible scenario I have no data.
Yeah in my experience men like to fetishize lesbians for the idea of multiple women and for the idea of “switching our sides”. From what I hear straight women like gay men more for the idea that they’re more comfortable with femininity and vulnerability as well as mutual attraction to men. Ironically I hear bi men have a wildly different experience and are prone to being rejected over it.
Yeah story of my life 😔