Swapping is always risky when the other couple are first timers. We did this once. Both the husband and wife were fun and both seemed equally into trying something new sexually.

Things started out fine just like previous swaps that we had done. The start always involves oral. The other husband and I were having a fun time eating out the other guy’s wife. And when the ladies switched over to sucking our cocks things were still good. The other husband was really into it. But his wife seemed to be hesitating a bit.

We laid them both down on their backs with their legs spread wipe and their pussies still glistening from the head session we had just provided them. We made the crawl up the bed and into position between their legs. I was waiting for the wife to grab my cock and guide it in for insertion. She just looked at me with a confused look. I had everyone stop and asked her if she was OK. I told her if she changed her mind and wasn’t comfortable proceeding to just let everyone know.

She said she didn’t think she was ready to do this. I told her, it happens and it’s no big deal. I suggested since we had gotten to this point that we each fuck our own spouses. She was thrilled with this because they had never been in the same room with another couple fucking. In the end we still all had fun

This is called a soft swap. Oral stuff. But the females aren’t comfortable with vaginal penetration by the other husband.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 months ago

    No, but haven’t really done just swap. Mostly I think it’s because husband is really way more into seeing me do other guys, less into doing other women, I’m relaxed about recreational sex, don’t mind seeing him do other women and we didn’t play with inexperienced couples ever.

    The main problem I’ve run into is the relentless insistence in the swinger community that women are expected to be bi and men straight. It’s exhausting.

    Your experience doesn’t sound bad though, the hottest part of any sort of play like that is always the sex with your own partner afterwards!

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      7 months ago

      I agree that I don’t understand the notion that for swaps the females have to be bi. Never understood that