“b-but bears are actually dangerous!” Shut the hell up.

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    8 months ago

    Maybe a divide for you, my SO says she’d pick the bear if it wasn’t me. And I don’t blame her.

    Instead of arguing the merits of this debate, maybe its worth analyzing your own merits. Men (individually but amongst their peers) should be ashamed that women typically seem to want to pick a bear over themselves, instead of falling further into the rut that pushes everyone - not just women - away from their social circles and friend.

    Someone tells you they’d rather be getting mauled by a bear? Take the hint. The divide exists within your head, make friends, be kind, and you’ll find happiness

    Edited for individuals to contextualize on their peers instead of generically

    Edit edit, I mean go ahead, be reactionary

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      8 months ago

      Excuse me?!

      The fuck should I be ashamed for?

      Why am I responsible for the actions of other men?

      Go have your fucking guilt trip if you want to but don’t include me.

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        8 months ago

        Reading comprehension, my apologies for the poor original phrasing, but yes you should be ashamed if you dont get the point.

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          8 months ago

          Assume I didn’t get the point: what was your point when you said ‘men should be ashamed that women pick the bear?’

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            8 months ago

            Im proud my SO would rather pick me, and I can likely speak on her behalf that she would choose the bear over you, whoever you are, and no offense intended.

            Thats the person you should be to who you choose, as soon as you’re trying to convince a woman that you’re a better pick, you’re fighting a loosing battle.

            Im really perplexed how this is complicated