I just can’t wrap my head around it. They want to be called and seen woman, but they have to get bottom surgery. Take hormone pills, all these excessive stuff to be a woman. Why can’t they just be happy being a male and just wear feminine clothes? Like a femboy or something. Do you hate yourself that much that you have to change your entire gender? Telling people and giving them the illusion that they weren’t assigned the right sex at birth you hear how crazy that sounds? The porn industry and pharmaceuticals are making so much bank from this

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    Pretty sure you’d be able to spot a predator, unless they were using that cloaking thing. They are huge and have weird tentacle-braids, and no concealed weapons permit.

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    I getcha. this gender is not sex is not the way I or anyone used gender before the last few years. All the same its fine that people want to have their bodies however they want.

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    If you go through life upset with how others are you’re going to have a tough time because you can’t control how others are.

    Life will be a lot easier for you if you learn to accept others for who they are since it’s beyond your control.

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    I’m sorry, but I will not be forced or pushed to believe that these people are a woman they are not. They decided to put so much money in time and energy into changing themselves, that’s not my problem and I don’t have to accept it. I am not going allow them to call me a CIS woman or birthing person so that they can feel included. I’m not gonna change my labels for them to feel better about themselves. What they can do is establish their own bathrooms. Keep your labels as trans woman and leave our alone. You’re not a woman, stop.

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      Good news for everyone is, your belief or approval is not required.

      drops the mic

      Hey it’s you again. What a coincidence. Hi :)

      Don’t delete your post too fast this time.

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          Because we actually do want to spend the time standing up for our sisters. The fact you posted this means you were looking for feedback. Well, here it is, and maybe you will educate yourself more about this issue.

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          I for one, find it entertaining. For the rest, I think you just put yourself into this situation. Reaping, sowing, Actions consequences, all that.

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    Why do people think that bodies are immutable and descriptive of who you are but brains and identity can be changed by thought?

    Just like telling people with mental health issues to get over it and stop.

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      I never said that bodies are not immutable. I’m just saying trans genders are not the sex that they want to be, whether a trans woman trans man. You were not assigned that at birth, that is not your sex.

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    Having to be OK with them going into our bathrooms, not knowing if they could be a predator or not

    Let me ask you something. You just outlined how much time, money and effort someone has to put into trying to transition. Hormone pills (and all of the problems that come with that), a change of wardrobe, a change in how they’re asking people to view and refer to them… Dealing with people like you, who look down on them for trying it… Hate from far right groups, persecution from some governments… General social stigma…

    Do you really think someone is going to go through all of that, and more that you haven’t even covered here, just so they can walk into a women’s room to… do whatever it is you’re afraid they’re doing? Really? I think the chances are better that any random woman you run into in the bathroom is a predator, honestly.

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          I wouldn’t know any man can dress up as a woman whether it’s a trans or not and the predator. People need to think about the safety of women

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        Who are you to tell anyone how to spend their time? How they conceive of themselves in their minds (where they do feel good (hopefully) about who they are) does not match their physical bodies (which can feel alien and abhorrent to them). Feel humbled you have never experienced such a state of being, and let people rock on with they bad selves.

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            No one needs your acceptance in this situation. Don’t judge things you don’t understand, THAT is actually wasting time.