• rmuk@feddit.uk
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    “You shouldn’t be sad while others have it worse.”

    Therefore,

    “You shouldn’t be happy while others have it better.”

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    Can you imagine if the frown turned into a smile upon hearing that? That’s the true depressing thought (that we would take pleasure in hearing of others misery).

    • stinerman [Ohio]@midwest.social
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      Yes, taken to the logical conclusion the only person who can complain about their station is the one person who has it worse than anyone else in the world.

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    I get this. I think about how relatively great my life is compared to humanity across the planet and it just depresses me so much further.

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    Sorry to hear that the people in your life are assholes :(

    Probably not very helpful, but tons of people are also just happy for no reason, so at least the world isnt all grim and gloom.

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    For a few people, this kind of thinking helps. It does for me, actually. When I feel like my life sucks it can help to compare myself to an imaginary Anglo-Saxon peasant woman during the invasion of the Sons of Lodbrok, and it actually helps to realize just how much better I have it than her.

    But that doesn’t work for everyone, and even those it works for kinda need to do the comparison themselves, not have it pushed on them.

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      I compare myself to a farmer peasant, and think about how I have more cool tech I can’t afford but in exchange peeling skin and bloody poop and honestly probably no area of better health.

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      Anglo-Saxon peasant woman during the invasion of the Sons of Lodbrok here. My life is actually kind of awesome