• Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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    6 months ago

    Open carriers show off two major things, and neither one of them are “tough guy”.

    First is fragile masculinity, they are worried that they aren’t seen as “manly” enough, so they have to show off to everyone that they are totally manly. It’s like women wearing that new handbag out and about, they want others to notice it.

    Second is pure fear, fear that at any time any moment something is going to happen, and the only way they feel safe is by carrying a lethal weapon with them at all times. You know, rather than dealing with what is causing the fear in the first place.

    So, we have a terrified person carrying a lethal weapon who is worried about what everyone around them think. To me, that’s the more worrying person in a room.

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      6 months ago

      Fear indeed. I went to college in a very… provincial small city. Riding my bicycle around, I was regularly harassed by insecure assholes in pickup trucks, and run off the road twice. The one time I managed to get a license plate, the police claimed that without witnesses, they couldn’t do anything. ACAB.

      I added my 1911 to the strap of my messenger bag, at the top of my left shoulder, where the stainless frame would be plainly visible. I was suddenly given plenty of space on the road and even got occasional compliments when waiting at stoplights. It’s disgusting that I would be a target for bullying without my pistol, but suddenly I was an okay guy with my penis extension where douchebag drivers could see it.

      So yeah, I’m living proof that non-military open carry is only for scaredy cats.

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        6 months ago

        I wonder if 3d printing a fake handle to stick out is worth the trouble.

        Being licensed anyway would be good if you were stopped, but it would weigh less and you wouldn’t risk losing it.

        Presume there’s laws about leaving it unsupervised etc while out the house.

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          6 months ago

          Having a toy is just as good for that purpose.

          You won’t be treated as if it’s a toy though.

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      6 months ago

      I have a friend who open carries everywhere as well. We do not live in a dangerous area at all and he carries this thing to the grocery store.

      I call it his “big boy gun” because it makes him feel like he’s a big boy now, like a kid who wears his “big boy” pants with no diapers.

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        6 months ago

        I call it his “big boy gun”

        Good! And I hope you never let him hear the end of it. What a poser.

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        I had the talk with a friend once who did it, told him I didn’t feel comfortable. We went to a fast food place and told him to look around, people weren’t admiring him, they were afraid of him. Luckily he saw reason and stopped wearing it shortly after.

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      6 months ago

      Stupidity goes in there too for baiting any and every psycho who can now instantly become an armed psycho.

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        6 months ago

        Nah they say they are, but they’re scared boys walking around with it. The like to LARP thinking they’ll need to use it, but actually using it on someone is terrifying.