This is a common trope in porn, the wife finds her husband cheating, and then joins in. Anybody ever have something like that happen?
I am pretty sure that wouldn‘t work that way at all in real life. So don’t try this at home!
Anyone who would do that is already in a poly relationship. Only way I could see it is if a hetero partner finds their partner did a gay cheat. Like a dude whose girlfriend starts seeing another girl. Some guys would think that’s totally awesome. Same with girls whose boyfriend starts seeing another guy, I know that’s a big fantasy.
But only for kinda shallow relationships. For a deep relationship, the betrayal is probably outweighing the sexiness.
I’ve “heard” of the opposite more often than I’ve heard of this case, (outside of porn of course). Where someone figures out their partner is cheating, contacts the person the partner is cheating with, and they both devise to “dump” the cheater.
I hate to break it to you, but porn isn’t real life.
In a relationship built on exclusivity, running into your partner having sex with someone else is a shock for everyone: the one who’s cheating, the one who’s being cheated on, and the other one. I’ve been there.
The moment your love life collapses, you don’t wonder if this isn’t the opportunity to spice up your sexual life.