• Zachariah@lemmy.world
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    I’d like to see all laws referencing marriage deleted. Don’t let the government specify what it it’s at all. Get out of the church’s business. But also assign zero rights to it.

    If people want to form a union for property ownership or raising children, don’t attach that to the religious concept at all. Just let them do it. This way religious people wouldn’t feel the need to weigh in on who is allowed.

    And then we’re not discussing who the government is allowing to marry. Let each church decide which ones they’ll recognize.

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      4 months ago

      Marriage was political before it was religious. Don’t cede aspects of civil life to religious bigots.

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      Libertarian horseshit from people still confused about marriage versus matrimony.

      You can hold whatever religious ceremony you want. You can bless the union of yourself and a horse. But marriage has always been a legal concept, and that union needs to be well-defined to be actionable.

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      The problem is that “keeping the government out of the church’s business” is not the goal of the religious right when it comes to gay marriage. They want theocratic rule and the criminalization of what they see as sin. If both sides agreed on the principle of separation of church and state, most battles over LGBTQ rights would’ve been over long ago.

      Separating the legal concept of unions between individuals and the religious institution of marriage would be almost as unpalatable to many evangelicals as fully legal gay marriage, because they’d rather outlaw homosexuality altogether.

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      I mean marriage is essentially a standard contract where the goverment allows any clergy to act as notaries for some reason. prenups are just modifications to the standard contract.

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        In some countries maybe, but in other countries you need a civil mariage first before you can do an optional church mariage ceremony.

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          Doesn’t that mean that the church won’t marry you if the government hasn’t made it official?

          That just follows the argument that the religious aspect is simply a voluntary add-on to the actual institution of marriage (a government-approved contract between individuals), which is the opposite of what the original commenter was arguing for.

          Matrimony and marriage are separate already. If you want to get church-married, go for it. If you don’t, don’t. Doesn’t sound hard or like it needs to be changed.

          • Successful_Try543@feddit.org
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            4 months ago

            According to Wikipedia, the difference between matrimony and marriage isn’t that clear:

            Marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union, or legal contract between spouses.

            Matrimony is a socially or ritually recognised union between spouses.