What do you expect to gain in doing this?? They don’t need to be told this, and telling them this is bullying. Are you actually trying to hurt them emotionally?? Because telling them this is just cruel. You’re obviously a lot taller than those you’re telling this to, and telling shorter men/guys that they “won’t have a chance” with the opposite sex all over their height is just despicable

  • Vox@lemmy.worldEnglish
    235·
    2 months ago

    Spoken like a short man :P

    In all seriousness though, you should thank them for bringing it up, the sooner the better for you to realize what they think matters and if they are shallow about that, there are likely other things as well. So good for you to learn early and move on to someone who will appreciate you as you are.

    • AnonymousAProblem1@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      219·
      2 months ago

      So apparently it’s important to be told this?? Now tell a black man it’s “important to be white” in a relationship…

      • MaggiWuerze@feddit.orgEnglish
        13·
        2 months ago

        He’s saying that she outs herself as shallow and that is important to know early on. Fuck her for mocking you height but thank her for giving you such an early warning to leave

      • yeehaw@lemmy.caEnglish
        2·
        2 months ago

        Yes it is good to know this because you don’t have to waste your time with them now that you know they’re a shallow piece of shit :)

      • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        2 months ago

        “Important to be” is the wrong language, but it’s absolutely fine if someone doesn’t find someone else attractive because of their height, color, or anything else. Attraction is subjective.