I have seen many comments saying that lemmy.world sucks, and sh.itjust.works is good. I have seen that lemmy.world apparently has a very poor reputation among other instances. Why? After a quick look, sh.itjust.works doesn’t look much different to me. Can anyone explain?

Edit: many good replies. the conclusion I’m drawing is that for my purposes it doesn’t really matter. I appreciate everyone who responded

  • TGhost [She/Her]@lemm.ee
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    2 hours ago

    To those who promotes lemmy.cafe as a solution,
    No shame that the instance doesnt block far rights and pedo instances ?

    Start considerate your self at a moment,

    Not every leftists are for imperialisms… True leftists are humanists, and want the right for people to get autodetermination,

    At a moment, stop being ridiculous,

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    11 hours ago

    The two main reasons people attack LW is:

    1. people who criticise it because it is by far the largest instance, and thereby means lemmy isn’t as decentralised as it could be, I think this is a fair point, because it has caused federation issues with for example aussie.zone in the past.

    2. Tankies who get mad the average lemmy.world user does not share their admiration for China, Russia, North Korea, Stalin, and Mao. Thereby accusing the whole instance of being “libs” and “bigots”.

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      10 hours ago

      I’ll add 2 more that resonate with me:

      1. Discussions of distributing copyright material is banned. (Not actually sharing, obviously that is illegal, but they’ve banned the mere discussion of it.)
      2. They have not defederated from Meta’s Threads
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        4 hours ago

        Fwiw, LW seems ready to defederate from Threads at a moment’s notice (post), but atm it doesn’t matter since Threads isn’t federating with Lemmy anyway.

        Though it’s still an excellent point to wonder why they haven’t done it preemptively, like pretty much every other instance I’ve heard of (even lemm.ee’s [blocked instance list[(https://lemm.ee/instances) that is shockingly short has that one). Perhaps bc the decision to defederate from any instance, and especially that one, has generated such negative feedback (as the post linked above mentions), they are hesitant to do anything at all, especially again while it does not matter right now.

  • Alphane Moon@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    I agree with you. IMO, it’s not that different.

    The big difference is between the tankie LARPer instances (lemmygrad, hexbear, parts of lemmy.ml) and the rest of the major instances.

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      16 hours ago

      As a socialist, you will understand I’m sure that constant being slurred with “tANkiE” from mostly .world users is very tiring

      • ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net
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        15 hours ago

        There’s a difference between being a socialist, and blindly defending authoritarian regimes that claim they are socialist. Those instances earned their reputation for a reason.

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          15 hours ago

          Make it a stickie, because barely anyone observes this definition.

          I am regularly slurred as Russian bot or a tANkiE when calling for peace and de-escalation of war.

          Daily .

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            14 hours ago

            Have you stopped to consider that maybe you’re just an asshole?

            No, seriously, you’re whining about being called a tankie when… like dude, you’re a tankie. Half your comments are just bringing up how EU/UK support for Ukraine’s defense is a frivolous waste or similar. I doubt you think of yourself like this but to an outside observer you’re deeply toxic.

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              14 hours ago

              … the root of the problem is your apparent compulsion to call people “toxic” and “assholes” for having different views.

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                14 hours ago

                Ah yes, the “no u” gambit. Classic, deadly, refined. The most elegant of rebuttals. A refuge for only the sharpest of wits.

                Anyways, do you mean different views like say, someone holding different (and by your own admission, quite common) opinions about how your conduct reflects on your character…?

      • flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz
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        15 hours ago

        There’s a huge difference between a tankie and a socialist:

        • Socialist supports economic policy aimed at just distribution of resources
        • Tankie supports fascist-like authoritarianism under a mask of socialism
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            14 hours ago

            Uh… Yeah, it does. It literally defines the meaning and the context in which the term is used. Thats… how language works. Fundementally.

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              14 hours ago

              Goodness me, you are being difficult today.

              I think you can appreciate, that no one user’s definition - no matter how agreeable you and I might find it - speaks to everyone’s definition of the same term.

              Especially when we are talking about colloquial slur, like tankie, which isn’t in main dictionaries.

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                14 hours ago

                Sure, but it does speak to that user’s definition, which is what they were talking about. And honestly, their definition is pretty much the standard. ‘A pejorative term for supporters of authoritarian regimes, particularly communist ones’ is the definition in some form across every site I’ve turned up in the thirty seconds I spent on this. It’s what everyone else in this thread appears to be using. Seems like its pretty agreed on.

      • Alphane Moon@lemmy.world
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        It’s fair to call people who white-wash authoritarianism, genocide and roleplay as communists tankies.

        This is not a matter of different opinions. They openly support the russian invasion, the atrocities of the russian occupation and reject Ukrainian identity and self-determination.

        It’s the literal definition of the word.

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    16 hours ago

    .world is the instance where most new users default to so and it has the highest user base and that includes a lot of trolls or just bad faith actors. Also, a lot of .world is based from reddit users who left and they brought that kind of mindset along. Some people don’t like that either.

    • Zarxrax@lemmy.world
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      16 hours ago

      What does it matter which users are on which server, since we all get the same content anyways, aside from defederation?

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        16 hours ago

        we all get the same content anyways, aside from defederation?

        We don’t, though. We get whatever content people on our chosen instance have subscribed to. Even without blanket server bans, there are Lemmy-based websites that your host has never heard of, hosting content you do not have access to. Someone from your server has to introduce those sites, and subscribe to the communities on those sites, for your server to have their content.

        The fediverse is subscription based. Shit doesn’t get sent around unless it’s specifically asked for.

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        16 hours ago

        it really doesn’t. those that make it about server handles are the reason movements fail, like get over yourself, ppl! hexbear came @ me pretty hard for my instance. fuck em.

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        16 hours ago

        It doesn’t, except for the ones who like to browse local. And the .world admins have quite a few blocked instances. They seem to be a bit too liberal in defederating to my tastes. I feel as if it runs against the concept of federation itself.

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          15 hours ago

          I feel as if it runs against the concept of federation itself.

          So, you believe that operating a website using Lemmy obligates you to host content from other sites that you don’t want to have a relationship with?

          Because the concept of ‘federation’ does not come with the expectation that you abandon editorial control over what you host. That’s an expectation you’re projecting on it.

          • Sundial@lemm.ee
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            15 hours ago

            No one is obligated to do anything. The admins run the site and they can moderate how they feel. As a user, I can join their site or another one if I choose to.

            My opinion of defederating is that it should only be used as a last resort. Taking a liberal approach to defederation means that a small amount of bad faith actors can completely shut down an instance and make it a pariah on the fediverse.

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          I think that having a choice about what instance you join and whether it’s liberal or conserative about defederating is the beauty of federation. someone might want to be on an instance that’s quick on the trigger about banning for transphobia, racism, etc, because they’re going through some shit in their lives, and later want to experience the greater variety of an instance where banning takes more consideration.

          Like, I think you’re right about what you want for you, but people wanting different things and being able to get it is pretty great.

          • Sundial@lemm.ee
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            13 hours ago

            I agree, it’s a useful feature for certain people. I’m just not a big fan of site admins making the decision for you. It should only be used as a last resort IMO or to protect yourself against illegal content, CP for example. Normalizing defederation between instances can be abused by a small amount of bad faith actors. If you as a person don’t like a certain culture on an instance or community, just block it yourself.

  • Zak@lemmy.world
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    15 hours ago

    I have seen that lemmy.world apparently has a very poor reputation among other instances.

    It’s the largest by far, with five times the monthly active population of #2. One of the main things people want out of federated systems is decentralization, and having one huge dominant server goes against that goal.

    I should note .world wasn’t the biggest when I signed up. I picked it because mastodon.world was a known quantity, which led me to believe the same team would run a stable server.

  • MyOpinion@lemm.ee
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    16 hours ago

    They are just two different servers. Lemmy.World is one of the really big ones. I had an account there but because of the size there were a lot of performance issues. I would recommend you join one of the smaller servers like sh.itjust.works. You have access to almost all the same information on the Fediverse.

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      15 hours ago

      You’ll miss out on the Beehaw community on Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works, since Beehaw defederated from them

      Lemmy.cafe is a nice general purpose instance that only defederates from the most extreme instances, while still giving access to Beehaw and all other instances. It’s still small too, so it’d more effectively spread the load compared to creating an account on sh.itjust.works, which already has a pretty huge user count.

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        15 hours ago

        Beehaw is not worth the effort. Their audience is way too sensitive to participate with any reasonable level of social interaction. You will live on eggshells if you wish to participate there,

  • flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz
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    15 hours ago

    Basically none. Both are mainstream instances, not practicing any extreme moderation policy.

    You might have confused lemmy.world with lemmy.ml which does have some communities with bad reputation.

  • Addition@sh.itjust.works
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    15 hours ago

    I have accounts on both. Sh.itjust.works has a piracy community that .world blocks and is still federated with Hexbear for some reason. .world has old.lemmy.world if you liked the old reddit UI.

    Otherwise, not that different.

    • IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.worldOP
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      15 hours ago

      Damn. I was considering making a sjw account to see if the better performance claims are true but hexbear is a dealbreaker. Never going back to that crazy cult site. I know I could block it but they’d still see my posts and comments.

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        13 hours ago

        Also note that “blocking” it doesn’t actually “block” much of anything at all - it stops you from seeing the communities located on that instance, but the users will still appear in posts all across the Fediverse, sending their harassing messages to you, pinging your Notifications every time they reply to you, downvoting your own comments, etc. The instance block function is horribly misnamed.

        If you want to avoid this kind of thing, I second that recommendation to try Lemmy.cafe - it is the only Lemmy instance that defederates from the Big 3: hexbear.net, lemmygrad.ml, and Lemmy.ml. The latter one is like 1000x easier to deal with than hexbear, yet still nearly all of the most batshit insane comments I’ve received on Lemmy after defederating from the other two have come from it - and for similar reasons that they get used to how things work inside their echo chamber, and then behave the same way when they venture outside of it - so I consider having defederated from it too worthwhile overall. Although you will miss out on some content such as !Firefox@lemmy.ml that way.

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    15 hours ago

    So far my experience with sh.itjust.works has been shit. I was banned from a community there for “vibes”.

    • Zak@lemmy.world
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      15 hours ago

      Most servers don’t micromanage community moderation. That sort of thing could happen almost anywhere.