This is actually horrific. I’m disgusted, like, ew. This is a lose-lose for everyone involved.

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    She’s a grown woman and plenty of people told her not to do it. She made her choice and from the documentary it seems she regrets it but she’s the one that decided to do it.

    It’s fucked up and weird but it was her choice

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      I agree with everything you said. It is her choice, and it is weird. But criminals do messed up stuff, and we offer to help them more than we offer to help girls like her. She needs an intervention or something. And people need to stop consuming her content. The selfishness behind people who give her business is astounding. They’re barely human if you ask me.

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        And people need to stop consuming her content.

        Paradoxically your here PUSHING her content, advertising for her.

        The selfishness behind people who give her business is astounding. They’re barely human if you ask me.

        YOU, literally YOU, are giving her more business and encouraging this behavior.

        The whole point of her little adventure was to get attention and make a name for herself… Here you are giving her attention and making her name well known. Your giving her exactly what she wanted, and you are Encouraging others to do the same… We live in a attention economy, you telling everyone to pay attention is exactly their goal.

        If you truly don’t like this, ignore it, and don’t pay attention to it.

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          I’m not pushing her content. I’m sharing a documentary that shows how tragic her life is, shows her crying and breaking down and shows how nobody is even accounting for her safety, and the maker of the documentary states repeatedly how bad all of this is. I’m not giving her business, I’m actively showing people the dark side of her business and telling everyone that she clearly needs help.

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            I’m not pushing her content. I’m sharing a documentary that shows how tragic her life is

            You may not intend to, but you literally are saying PAY ATTENTION TO THIS, LOOK AT THIS WOMAN, HERE IS HER NAME. SHE HAD BAD SEX. Sex sells, it grabs attention, and your advertising for her. The whole reason people do big outlandish sex stunts is to get exactly the kind of attention you are giving her.

            you are LITERALLY giving her business.

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              If some person sees a post saying how a certain person needs help, and watches a documentary that shows how disgusting and repulsive the whole ordeal is, and they CHOOSE to pay for her content, its not my fault. they are already engaging with that material somewhere else, my stuff is nothing new. So I’m not bringing her business.

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                  you just keep repeating yourself. this bores me. I am obviously not supporting her business, because as I said before: anyone who - after seeing a documentary detailing the horrors of her life and how harmful it is to her - and decides to engage with her content, well… they’re a lost person engaging with that content already so I’m not bringing any new customers. I am, however, raising awareness to people and that’s the first step in getting this kind of stuff illegal. and I think that should be a goal.

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                    raising awareness = advertising

                    if you want to just have a discussion about sex work, link to a paper about sex work, a study, don’t make it a discussion about a single person.