I am curious why so many of you folks are so hostile by default. We’re trying to build a decentralized community not a openly hostile community.

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    Internet itself is really hostile, among the parts of the internet that I’ve been to, this one is so far the most civilized of them.

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    That really hasn’t been my experience, but then I just block people that make my experience here worse, so maybe just try that.

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    Do you think that a lot of people come to Lemmy because they got banned from Reddit? I often wonder about this.

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      Well, I did in a basic sense. But mostly I just oppose Reddit’s extremely nonsensical censorship these days. But I was banned for sharing opinions and debating people… not for breaking rules or being hostile toward users.

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        Bullshit. Your comments were deleted because you were being a dick. Check the modlog, it’s all in there.

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        Yeah, I was talking about the people who are hostile and abusive. I’m wondering if the people who are so disagreeable on Lemmy came straight from Reddit.

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    Use the block and report buttons. People can be rude. People act like lemmy is somehow better but it’s just redditors who like tech.

    Also, fuck you!

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    I enjoy arguments and I’m comfortable with confrontation so I haven’t really felt it be annoyingly/hurtfully hostile. Perhaps I’ve just been lucky and I’ve avoided all the difficult folks, lol. Hopefully it gets better for you! 🙏

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    Yep. People here make Reddit users look like angels. I’ve also noticed how absolutely toxic people here are. Now I will be downvoted and told to leave if I don’t like it.

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    I can just only assume that since the majority of people came to here solely due to Reddit’s API changes 2 years ago, they are more inclined to critique, and a non-insignificant amount of them are just hateful or quick to judge.

    I’m an ex redditor as well, but I don’t really have any idea of what the average reddit comment section, cause I have only watched the top comments.

    We can maybe even consider the chance that online or chronically online people did become more hateful over these years.

    Good question tbh

    May I ask, what kinda hate comments do you get?