• stevedidWHAT@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Can I ask you what your definition of a whore is? You mention a specific instance/example of course. But I’m wondering what to you embodies a whore and why that’s wrong. Interested in discussion, not debating ya ☺️

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      10 months ago

      Well I don’t think it’s fundamentaly wrong, I just don’t think little girls should want to grow up to be that. But I’m happy to expand what I mean when I get out of work. Give me a few hours:)

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          10 months ago

          Okay, so. You asked what I think a “whore” is. I would classify anyone who sells their body, whether it’s penetration or images online under that title and I guess people that have lots of sex with strangers too. But like I said, I don’t think anyone is wrong for doing it, for pretty women it’s basically the easiest thing you could do for money. But that’s the thing, we shouldn’t be raising our children to do what’s easy. We should be raising them to become doctors, Lawyers, teachers, etc… and if they want to; really good mothers. I don’t even want to get into the fact that a large majority of sex workers come from broken homes and abusive relationships. Every girl I’ve met that have an only fans or has a lot of sex with people they don’t know, either didn’t know their father or had an abusive relationship with him. The majority of them didn’t have the greatest mothers either. The women I’ve met that aren’t like that always had great relationships with both parents, divorced or not. It’s my opinion that if you raise your girl with all the love in the world, she would never even want to be like that. It’s completely based on anecdotal evidence but the more I look into it the more I think it’s true. That being said I do understand there are some people that just want to fuck and party and that’s awesome, but those people usually don’t want kids anyway so I don’t think it would hurt their feelings by saying they’d be terrible role models.

          Edit: we should be raising our girls to want to accomplish meaningful things in their lives and I don’t think getting fucked online is much of an accomplishment.

          Edit edit: work took longer than anticipated 😅