

Honestly I think it was more than 15 years ago. As soon as “light trucks” (a category including SUVs) became less regulated than any other vehicle, it’s been aggressive marketing from automakers to push them. Remember when even the Simpsons was pushing how terrible and dangerous SUVs were with the canyonero? It’s just been political loopholes pushed by corporations, and now we live in a country where the top 3 best selling vehicles have all been 20 foot long pickups for years.
Absolutely get the anxiety, though I will agree with your family that it’s a basic skill. Astonishingly, a significant number of jobs here in the US require a driver’s license, even if driving isn’t part of the job responsibilities. A friend of mine is hitting this right now and it’s making their life a lot harder.