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Cake day: August 2nd, 2023

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  • I’d have some sympathy if it weren’t for how far you need to go to get a license suspended in the first place.

    All you have to do is talk back to a small town cop.

    Once they decide to punish you, there’s nothing to be done. They can sit a block from your house and pull you over every single day and write a bullshit speeding ticket. The same cop wrote me up at least a dozen times. Admittedly I was speeding the first time, and possibly some of the others, but I was always with the flow of traffic and close to the limit. He would just write up whatever he wanted.

    The most annoying part was when my father borrowed my car one morning and got pulled over instead. He was mad at me for it, because me pissing off the cops got him pulled over even though he never goes above the limit.

    And if you live in a small town, there is no public transportation, there is no taxi service. If you don’t drive you have to walk or ride a bike. And all of the work available is many miles away, because everything is when you get rural.

    Although I don’t disagree with your comment about the number of bad drivers, I just think this article lacks enough details to come to your conclusion.








  • This last winter I was unemployed and I got sick enough to need antibiotics.

    I couldn’t prove that I didn’t have a job, so the ‘sliding scale clinic’ charged me $586 to talk to someone (not a doctor). I knew what I needed. I was forced to take an unnecessary STD test ($180) and to promise I would go in for additional testing and scanning (undisclosed price, to be determined AFTER).

    The meds were around $40 for a week of pills (15 pills).

    I knew my issue, and just needed a prescription for the antibiotics.

    I have a job now. They want about $200 a month for the basic coverage. I have on average, $20-$30 at the end of the pay period. So I could get insurance, but it means skipping more meals (I already skip several a week to save money).

    So I just hope nothing ever goes wrong because if it does, I’ll need to be close to death before I get help that will take me years to pay for.









  • This reads like someone read 50 shades of grey and then wrote down every “sexy” song they could think of (and it wasn’t very many).

    If you want actual playlists ask a DJ. Not being a dick but really, just ask one. They LOVE to share when someone shows interest. Don’t know a DJ? Look for fetish events online and find out who is DJing and just ask them.

    I have a half dozen CDs I’ve collected from over the years. They are AMAZING and I have a lot of great memories tied to some of those songs.

    A lot of the DJs record their sets for big events, that’s how I got mine. Down side is sometimes you can’t skip to a track because it’s one file (depends on the setup). Also no track info, just handwritten sharpie. But on the plus side you get a larger selection of music and great flow throughout.




  • Years ago I adopted the identifier ‘Cascadian’ as I fit most of the stereotypes.

    (Referring to those of us that live in/around the Cascade mountain range.)

    I know it’s not ‘a hobby’ but being native to the PNW, it really is a lifestyle. We’re out playing in the wilderness, hunting, fishing, enjoying the rain. We smell a little like moss & dirt with a hint of patchouli. We grown our own food and prefer our animals over people most of the time. I’m about to move across the country and I have no idea what my life will be like. I spend 90% of my free time outside in wilderness where most of my ‘hobbies’ take place.