I will be patient with this one queer teen I knew even if they bullied me. She might not know better but she thinks she’s one of the “good lesbians”. And that LGBTQ+ people are evil with an “agenda”. I don’t talk to her anymore because she blocked me and thinks that Latinos are evil and that they’re all illegal. What a shame, her grandma is actually Korean and came to the U.S.

But yeah, I hope she changes her ways.

Don’t delete it! I love hearing others’ perspectives!

Thank you so much! :D

Thank you so much! I actually knew a queer MAGA person who was very “I’m one of the good lesbians” and also anti-hormones for anyone, even adults.

Thanks!

I think so. I feel like if they have queer friends, a cishet MAGA person MIIIGHT change their stance, but they also might be very discriminatory. Since I, however, dealt with these thoughts and had my first crush on a girl around that time, I started acknowledging it and talking to more queer people and changed my stance. I also became friends with a boy whose parents came to the U.S. undocumented, so when I found out how hurt he was by my opinion, I began researching what they do to immigrants.

Genderfluid trans guy here, I see a lot of my kid self in this. As a kid, I didn’t feel a specific gender or have the words to express that, but I had feelings. I’ve been told “you’re a girl and/so you must do XYZ” but some days, I wanted to be seen as a boy too. I wanted to wear baggy men’s clothes and cut my hair. Some days, I don’t feel like either gender. After all, I’m just me. And you’re just you.

Also, I’d agree with another commenter I saw that cis people don’t usually question being cis. I won’t label you, though, that’s for you to decide but I’d say you do fit under the trans umbrella

Is PieFed Reddit too?

You’re not crazy, it’s real

I believe I found it in the first movie where Fester is asleep and Thing is on him and Gomez is staring down at them and takes Thing off him and Fester wakes up.

Me too!

That’s weird that I remember them watching fester sleep

ahhh, ok. i’m definitely omni then.

Sorry, is this your ex-girlfriend you were talking about who was bullying your friend or whatever? Or just in general? Anyway, she probably needs an outlet for her pain if she was bullied but it doesn’t excuse her behavior in any way.

On one hand, maybe y’all need some time. On the other, you kinda are bad for ghosting your “friend”. What the hell?

Not overreacting, it could be a red flag. I would say your feelings and thoughts definitely are valid, but give her the benefit of the doubt and also ask what’s going on, don’t make false accusations. Break up with her if she turns out to be bullying your friend and/or making you choose between her or him as an ultimatum.

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I think she did break up with you. Sorry to hear, man. I think you should take a break from Lemmy and breathe. Please, going forward, respect her boundaries and don’t pry further if she sent a goodbye message.

Fair

This is just ableism… What the hell… He can’t choose being socially awkward nor being in special education. Why on Earth would you do this to someone…?