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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • This old chestnut. Yes legally anyone can have sex with an 18 year old, but are you choosing 18 to cover yourself legally? What about countries where it’s younger? Is that still not morally wrong? What about going to a poor country, flash some cash, and date a 16 yr old with the implied understanding they will be given money/ taken care of? I’m old enough to realize I didn’t no shit about fuck at 18. I know enough right now to kinda understand things. I’m sure my 70yr of neighbor would laugh at me if they heard me say that. People’s brains stop growing at 25. Have you ever seen those early 20s losers that purposely go after high schoolers because they can’t have a relationship with someone their age? They groom them and tell them what they want to hear. You’re beautiful, we understand each other so well, I love you, oh they’re just jealous of what we got, don’t listen to them you’re very mature for your age, etc. Kids are desperate to fit in and be accepted. If you add low self esteem, it’s a situation ripe for abuse, coercion, etc. There’s also a power dynamic. Think Dicaprio and his early 20s gfs that he automatically dumps at 25. There’s a lot more, but I’m not writing a dissertation. It’s legal to mess around with 18 yr olds, but everyone will def judge you and anyone looking out for them will tell them it’s sus af and to be careful














  • I work with psych patients. It’s mostly to screen if they need to be in/out patient, new prescription, or whatever they need. Our hospital mostly gets people that have detention orders (judge orders them to get help at the facility) which means they can’t leave until they’ve been evaluated by a therapist and a plan to help them is setup. Sometimes it’s people that either chose to stop taking the meds for whatever reason or ran out of their prescription and can’t afford to get more and get brought in for their behavior. There’s patients that come in every 4 or 5 months because their prescriptions only last 90 days.

    The scrubs allow patients to have clean clothes that we know don’t have anything they can use to hurt themselves or others. Some patients haven’t slept, eaten, showered in days. Giving them a shower, clean clothes, and food helps a lot.

    I had a patient that while anxious and going through somethings, was talking to me, venting, occasional jokes, etc. Calm and polite the whole time. Out of nowhere, they ran towards another patients room, but only got half a meter in. They squared up like they were going to fight me, but immediately went back into their room after I asked them to. Once in the room they starting kicking the bed trying to break off a piece of rail.

    By that time security, RN, and 2 other staff members were there to witness the patient wrap a blanket around their neck and try to choke themselves. All this within about 90 seconds. From calm to actively suicidal. I got yelled at for allowing the patient to enter another patients room.

    There are patients that scream, threaten to kill you, and are overly aggressive and then break down crying after you tell them to stop yelling.

    I’m sorry OP had a horrible experience and mental health doesn’t get appropriate funding. I’d say 95% of ppl are good patients, but the rules are for the 5% that aren’t and we can’t know which ones are gonna be the 5%.