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214·19 days agowhy does my post trigger you so much? calm down.
This is gen z…
ok boomer
So right up front, you want to inform your supervisors
they’re not my supervisors, they MIGHT be, though.
And you think that’s going to go well for you?
I don’t know how it’s going to go. What I don’t want is to work with those 2. Peace of mind is more important than advancing a career.
You call me weird for not wanting to work with people who drain me… well, all power to you.
Are you angry at me because I actually get to choose the people I work with? My actual gig is very light on the drama side. If somebody pesters me I get to leave that place.
and choose another candidate for the job.
good luck with that. You clearly don’t work healthcare. Are you a manager btw?
You don’t get to choose who you work with
actually I do, everybody does, you can quit, you can work part time, you can start looking for a job that better fits you and then either 2 week notice it or quit on the spot. You mean you’ve never met people who quit not the job itself but a manager, a charge or certain coworkers? I don’t know if YOU cannot choose the people you work with or you’re convinced you cannot do that, but everyone has a choice: in my case, either advance my career now accepting I have to deal with those 2 moronic gossips or either keep my current job and look for the next opportunity. A third option would be to fake give them the attention so desperately need for a minute and then go back to learning and ignore them. And a fourth one, do nothing, stay where I am without thinking about advancing my career. I’m sure you can choose as well, it’s only you’re convinced you cannot. Maybe you think it’s easier for you to stay where you are or you think changing might be too much of a hassle. Doing nothing and claiming you don’t get to choose who you work with like you do is also a choice.
Who told you that you could go through life without the minor inconvenience of having to deal with conflicting personalities?
Now you sound like a granddad or a mother who didn’t have it too good fully convinced everyone must have it as bad as you. Ironically, this happens way too often in nursing: you remind me of how old nurses act with the new grads.
Are you calling me entitled for wanting a quiet life? knock yourself out, but, are you implying you don’t want that? why?
you don’t get some protective bubble from the icky, inconvenient parts.
You’re being conformist. If everyone thought like you nobody would have changed jobs ever.
You sound angry. Are you angry?
you are right, but somehow I cannot stop ruminating about this. Just thinking about them and how I was treated infuriates me.
I must insist you read the thread again. I haven’t even started my new job.
Kindly point where I’m having the exact same issues at a new job I haven’t even started.
calm down, think before writing.
this is bed nursing specific
I don’t know if this is PTSD, but the mere mention of their names and remembering them infuriates me.
I know I should be better than this and leave the past behind me, but somehow I cannot.
At least I’m eating and resting well
This is like the 6th thread I’ve seen on here by you, every one almost identical in that you hate your job, you hate everyone there, everyone is mean to you, everyone else is lazy, etc
then read the thread again dude, apparently you didn’t notice I no longer work there
People won’t like you for it but you won’t care.
actually, some unidentified coworkers complained I’m not friendly and the way I speak is demanding.
My former supervisor seemed to care about this because she came to me with these accusations, repeatedly. I still don’t know if this something big enough to fire somebody.
I don’t care, don’t give a fuck but apparently hr does…
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