Maybe at 80% - 20% ratio

What do you think about it?

    • Politically Incorrect@lemmy.worldOP
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      8 months ago

      Maybe sounds like shitposting but as I am actually a cis man and I like feminine women I usually(80% - 20%) get confused about trans women on dating apps, for me they seem in the majority of cases more feminine and physical attractive than bilogical women, I am not interested in trans women anyway but just my feeling about it.

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        8 months ago

        Then you should have worded it as your opinion instead of projecting onto men in general in a fairly obvious attempt to stroke an emotional reaction.

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          8 months ago

          IDK. I saw that this was an unpopular opinion and did not feel personally attacked here.

          Sure, I feel they are wrong. Mostly because they are including men in general in this opinion. They are not stating a fact, just an opinion they feel is unpopular.

          It would be better though if they were to state the opinion without attempting to speak for all men.

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            Their phrasing is even worse than just generalizing. They worded it as the woman’s attractiveness changes based on men, instead of saying that men are less attracted to a woman after finding out they are trans.

            The most favorable reading would be “Men are less attracted to trans women after finding out they are trans” which I don’t think is even unpopular. People frequently find actors and actresses less attractive when they find out their natural hair color doesn’t match their on screen look, and that’s just hair color! People frequently find people less attractive when their expectations and assumptions aren’t met, and people have expectations and assumptions hammered into them by society for their entire lives.

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              I was willing to cut them slack. Originally thought that that maybe they misworded it, or just over generalized.

              Obviously, saying all x feel this way is inflammatory, regardless of the crowd. Targeting the statement at cis men after being informed they are not the global spokesperson is not helpful.

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          8 months ago

          Yeah I should stated it definetly not my intention to totalize, apparently I’m wrong about finding feminity as something attractive.