Maybe at 80% - 20% ratio

What do you think about it?

  • folkrav@lemmy.ca
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    4 months ago

    Yeah as a man, saying you find trans women attractive beside you wouldn’t have(in my case) a relationship with one it’s generally a taboo at least in my society, usually people are in extreme sides, you are gay or you are cis, there is no middle point.

    It’s indeed pretty taboo in some sense, even here in Canada lol. Doesn’t make it true though, sexual orientation being mostly a spectrum. I don’t have anything to back it up, but I strongly believe most people who say they’re “100% straight” are mostly repressing the non-zero part of themselves that could maybe be a tiny little bit gay, even if it’s like 0.01% lol

    I can perfectly be friend of a trans(male or female) person but for me they are not relationship material.

    Preferences are always okay.

    • Politically Incorrect@lemmy.worldOP
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      4 months ago

      I believe being attracted to trans women isn’t gay at all, I mean for me they are women, but definitely not an option to have a romantic relationship maybe I give it too much importance to reproductive matters and maybe I shouldn’t, tbh at the same time I believe too nowadays isn’t a very good idea to have children.

      I am not in a point where I would feel comfortable looking at a penis or at least turned on by it.

      I believe you are a chill dude mate 👍👍. Thx for your opinion I liked it 👍👍

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        4 months ago

        Yeah that’s fair. If you’re looking for reproductive capacity, you’re indeed going to have a bad time sticking with trans women…

        IMHO for kids it’s as good and bad a time as any. Safer overall in most countries, children work less, mostly have a childhood, decent-ish education mostly, … but social media is solidly fucking them up. I thought my (33) generation was fucked by having access to the internet and knowing more about it than most of their parents way too early. IMHO, it’s nothing compared to them being practically raised to be chronically online. Ah, and the impending sense of doom from the contemporary ecological disaster we’re living in isn’t helping either. I also understand that not everyone thinks this way, it’s perfectly okay not to have kids. As a dad of 2, I wouldn’t wish it on someone who didn’t want it.

        Cocks don’t turn me on either, I find them very ugly to be honest, but I’m then thinking… Do we have to find every single thing about our partners attractive? Could the right person make me overlook a penis? Maybe? Again I’m married and have been with my wife for so long that it’s all very distant hypotheticals lol