Kinda sidetracking here, but I figure it might interest you.
The whole “hands free” orgasm thing exists, definitely. But, as a long conversation with a friend that’s fairly well versed in sexual health and function explained, there’s really no such thing as a zero stimulation orgasm.
There’s not even a zero physical stimulation orgasm, only those free of external stimulation. Just the blood going through the erectile tissue of the penis or clitorus is stimulation. And if there’s air movement as well, there’s physical stimulation, no matter how mild.
Like I said, a bit off the main thrust of the post, but it may be relevant.
The conversation with that friend came about after a discussion regarding sexual function with disability, and how orgasm can occur without being able to “feel” the stimulation with the brain.
That came about after a support group meeting where sexual issues regarding various disabilities came up, where he had to cut the subject short for a mixed group, and convened a mini group afterwards.
Anyway, on to what you actually asked lol.
Myself, not since I was a teenager. I have come damn close a few times as an adult, but only after waking from a dream having slept naked, then turning over to relieve the pressure from the sheets and bed. One time, air movement alone was enough I almost came. My wife, however, was awake and decided to intervene rather than waste a perfectly good erection. But the other times, stopping stimulation of anything but air stopped the orgasm
Now, as a teenager? Waking up and air was enough to finish the job. There were a couple of times that just erotic thoughts and a sheet touching were enough to cause orgasm, even without motion.
This is fascinating, thank you. Also, yes, I can definitely remember having had that much of a “hair trigger”—to use a terrible expression—when I was that age, lol.
Well, while sleeping, sure. Can’t do it while awake, or haven’t managed it yet, but I’m a mid-50s woman and still get the dreams sometimes. Not as often now I am getting good sex everyday (not frustrated) but still occasionally.
I find that really interesting, in fact. I’m a thirty year old man and my most recent wet dream happened a little over ten years ago.
Oh, and having read the explanation below - I am only average in sensitivity, maybe less, am able to enjoy direct stimulation and rough play so I don’t consider myself physically very sensitive but do have a very strong connection between brain and body, very responsive and good at letting go. Like even when I was young and hung up I could get off pretty easily, for whatever reason that was not a hang-up even when I hated my body, felt uncomfortable in so many ways, the experience of orgasm always has come (ha) easily for me. I am pretty sure my dream ones are straight from brain, not from physical stimulation. Did also cum once from a slap to the face, that was only once though and there was kind of a lot leading up to it.
I don’t think people do need outside stimulation to get off, and also think if tired enough or not mentally into it, physical touch won’t get you off. As the saying goes - the brain is the major sex organ.
Along the lines of your question I have seen videos where the woman is blowing and jerking the guy off then completely stops. No touching at all. And the guy will spurt out ropes for 15 - 20 seconds. I have never experienced that . For me it would be a “ruined” organism if the stimulation stopped before I was totally finished.
This may sound weird but I did and I didn’t. What I mean is that this wasn’t a sexual feeling but ejaculate came out. I was trying meditation at the time. One of my internal focuses at the time was where I perceived my eustachian tubes to be. I used them as a point to focus and control (for lack of a better word). Well i did this lying down one night and I think there was a lot of backup in my sinuses or nose and I was feeling the flow of mucus around my neck area. There seemed to be a moment where I kinda pushed mucus down past a point in my neck and there was either a wave of pressure or the actual mucus travelling down my chest cavity and ending with quite a sensationless ejaculation. I really don’t think mucus traveled entirely out through my peehole but maybe the cum was triggered by the wave that traveled down my body. Never happened again and my meditation was kindof abruptly shifted in focus away from the strangeness of the experience.
Huh. I don’t think I’ve ever read any description of meditation nearly this technical before. I think I would remember if I had. Thank you for typing that.
Huh. I don’t think I’ve ever read any description of meditation nearly this technical before. I think I would remember if I had. Thank you for typing that.
