I say this knowing that people stuck within the violence of communities that are extremely conservative and deploy violence to maintain that conservatism through mandatory and functionally-mandatory power structures don’t necessarily have an outlet to deal with the resulting trauma from that and that this is has to be considered as context when people vent in toxic ways about religion.
Must have read your comment at least 10 times … Well, I don’t know enough and you know much more about all of this so I can’t add something really meaningful. Still, I wish you peace and I wish that we, humans, wouldn’t be so violent.
Take care.