• Scrof@sopuli.xyz
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    85
    arrow-down
    6
    ·
    6 months ago

    The very existence of this comic points to a sad reality. Is it exaggerated? Probably. But it’s a damn cartoon, it’s supposed to be.

    • FriendBesto@lemmy.ml
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      42
      arrow-down
      19
      ·
      6 months ago

      Sadly, statistics sort of tend to back up at least a few of those claims, even if it is a silly cartoon. Even if people do not like to admit it. Example, in 2018, 69% of black mothers are single mothers. But people never want to speak about reality because they have been told that speaking about reality is somehow racist, which is not. No problem ever gets fixed if people refuse to look at it, honestly.

      “In 2011, 72% of black babies were born to unmarried mothers,[5][6] while the 2018 National Vital Statistics Report provides a figure of 69.4 percent for this condition.” The stats have not gotten better since then.

      https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/African-American_family_structure

      • ReiRose@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        31
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        6 months ago

        I’m not sure but I don’t think the point is statistics. I think the point is to treat everyone equally despite the colour of their skin until you know them personally, and their situation.

      • Renacles@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        20
        arrow-down
        4
        ·
        6 months ago

        Unmarried and single are different things.

        This sounds like one of those crime rate arguments for justifying racism without looking at any of the other factors.

      • SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        8
        arrow-down
        3
        ·
        6 months ago

        Statistics show that white people are more likely to develop skin cancer than other racial groups. Would that problem be fixed by asking every white person you meet who has mole on their face if they have skin cancer?

      • Xanis@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        6 months ago

        To expand a little I feel it’s more that people do not understand racism appropriately rather than not wanting to speak about reality. People, ironically, fear being labeled. For most racism is blatant and obvious. A “do not say or do these specific things” mentality. This leads to the misunderstanding. The reality (as you say) is we should acknowledge racism. By acting like it isn’t there we are doing a disservice to the people who are affected by the systemic issues that do exist.

        In the U.S. this is very much a larger cultural issue, while also being a problem elsewhere in the world. If I had to guess: Cultures with stronger authoritarian leanings in significant sub-cultures such as work and familial structures also see stronger racism or similar beliefs on the same tree. How is this fought? Humility and acknowledgement.

    • Drewelite@lemmynsfw.com
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      6 months ago

      Agreed. But I wonder if this is butting up against a limitation of the human brain. Every person across the globe experiences stereotypes. It seems to be a natural way the human brain forms initial judgements. Hell, I don’t think the comic artist realized they were making a stereotype when they made all the questions askers white.

      Being aware of it helps but the best fix is to have a significant amount of personal time with the group in question. This is why it’s so frustrating for someone of a particular race to hear questions like this, because they have plenty of first hand experience with members of their race. Themselves, their family, etc…

      But realistically a person can’t spend significant amounts of time with members of every discreet group of people they might see on a daily basis.