Ephebophilia is when an older adult is sexually attracted to post-pubescent teenagers or adolescents but still biologically adults—usually those in the age range 15–19. https://simple.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ephebophilia

I believe that ephebophilia is not morally wrong as long as it’s between two consenting adults. For example if a 18 year woman wants to have sex with me a 26 year old man then I do not think it’s morally wrong because me and her are both consenting adults so what we are doing is completely harmless.

  • setVeryLoud(true);@lemmy.ca
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    4 months ago

    I think you’re stuck on the legal definition of an adult.

    Some countries have people become adults at 16, some at 18 and some at 21. 18 is meaningless beyond the laws in place and the legal punishments given to those who break the laws.

    Many other reprehensible acts are legal, such as firing people for their ethnicity or gender identity in the US, or running a payday loan scheme.

    You need to look at it from the perspective of brain development and power dynamics rather than from a legal or subjective point of view.

    Having sexual intercourse with someone below your level of mental maturity is considered morally reprehensible due to the mental harm it may cause to the younger person, and them being unable to consent properly due to the power dynamics of the older partner having more money, more maturity, more status, etc. The younger individual may become dependent on the more mature individual, further driving the negative power dynamic.

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        4 months ago

        Because I don’t care about power dynamics or maturity levels.

        You do understand that what you’re saying here is that you choose to completely disregard whether something has been proven to harm others so long as it’s legal or you subjectively do not object to it?

        You’ll make a great abuser, please never go into a relationship.

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        4 months ago

        I believe it’s morally wrong for adults to have sex with minors.

        no you don’t

        Ephebophiles are not immoral

        yet…

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            4 months ago

            I said ephebophilia between two consenting adults

            but your post title is

            Ephebophiles are not immoral

            ephebophelia cannot exist between adults because