• MajorHavoc@programming.dev
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    2 months ago

    Nobody, so far, has addressed the physical intimacy bit, to my satisfaction.

    There’s kinds of intimacy satisfaction that are only possible after years and years of practice and communication. That usually also includes sex, but it doesn’t have to.

    There’s something special about being touched (and not touched!) at just the right time, in just the right way.

    Those of us in relationships that are really long running tend not to talk about it, because it doesn’t make everyone who hears it better off, since there’s a ton of luck involved in finding a long term partner for it.