Personally, I have never gotten the hype by the names “baby,” “babe,” “bae,” “honey,” it feels forced to me. I’ve seen those TikTok videos where as a joke people will address their spouses by their real names and the spouses get mad and say something like “my family and friends can call me that, but you can’t.” I’ve never gotten the seriousness of it. If we already know we’re boyfriend and girlfriend, or husband and wife, why should I have to address you by those names? Again, I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with saying them, but using real names should become more common as well.

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    Find something more productive to do with your mental capacity. It’s their relationship, not yours. It’s none of your business and your opinion is not asked for. I have no earthly idea why you think you are that important to anyone to say some generalization on something so mundane.

    You have your right to your opinion and share it with the Internet and now it’s up for a rebuttal. It’s between them. If they want to call each baby or babe or honey it’s their relationship. They aren’t asking for your participation. They are most certainly not asking for your evaluation either.

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      First you said “my opinion was not asked for” then you said “I have the right to my opinion and to share it with the internet.” You contradicted your entire statement. I never said it was a problem, I said using real names should be more normalized. It’s called unpopular opinion key word “opinion.” You’re the one wasting your time getting overly offended for people that you don’t even know.

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        That’s not a contradiction. That’s a fact. You have the right to your opinion, but the minute you share you open yourself to others opinions of yours. And I shared mine. It’s none of your concern.

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          3 months ago

          lmao how is it a fact if you’re saying the exact opposite of what you said before? Make it make sense

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            I am not saying the opposite of what I said. I said your opinion only matters to you and you are allowed to have it. However no one cares what your opinion is because you aren’t a part of it. It isn’t complicated logic. It’s like having an opinion on food when you aren’t a chef. It’s a critic’s opinion. No one takes you seriously and you sound desperate for attention.

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              You don’t have to be a chef to know you’re eating shit lmao. And clearly you care about my opinion because you keep responding and you’re downvoting everything I say. A person who truly didn’t care would’ve kept scrolling. But go off little dude.