ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 6 months agoWhat sounds like a double standard but isn't?message-squaremessage-square35linkfedilinkarrow-up144arrow-down13
arrow-up141arrow-down1message-squareWhat sounds like a double standard but isn't?ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 6 months agomessage-square35linkfedilink
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·6 months agoIm a guy. Im excluded from mothers groups. Is that really a bad thing when I can’t offer the group anything as Im not a mother?
minus-squarenomy@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down2·6 months agoI think you as a father could probably learn a lot from mothers, so yeah it’s kind of fucked up to be excluded.
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·6 months agoI have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.
minus-squarenomy@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down2·6 months agoWhy assume you have something to offer them when the opposite is likely truer.
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·6 months agoI don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.
Im a guy. Im excluded from mothers groups. Is that really a bad thing when I can’t offer the group anything as Im not a mother?
I think you as a father could probably learn a lot from mothers, so yeah it’s kind of fucked up to be excluded.
I have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.
Why assume you have something to offer them when the opposite is likely truer.
I don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.