ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days agoWhat sounds like a double standard but isn't?message-squaremessage-square32fedilinkarrow-up144arrow-down12
arrow-up142arrow-down1message-squareWhat sounds like a double standard but isn't?ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days agomessage-square32fedilink
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·2 days agoIm a guy. Im excluded from mothers groups. Is that really a bad thing when I can’t offer the group anything as Im not a mother?
minus-squarenomy@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down2·2 days agoI think you as a father could probably learn a lot from mothers, so yeah it’s kind of fucked up to be excluded.
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·2 days agoI have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.
minus-squarenomy@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down2·2 days agoWhy assume you have something to offer them when the opposite is likely truer.
minus-squareMothmanDelorian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·2 days agoI don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.
Im a guy. Im excluded from mothers groups. Is that really a bad thing when I can’t offer the group anything as Im not a mother?
I think you as a father could probably learn a lot from mothers, so yeah it’s kind of fucked up to be excluded.
I have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.
Why assume you have something to offer them when the opposite is likely truer.
I don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.