• hendrik@palaver.p3x.de
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    1 month ago

    Probably alcohol. But that’s just the first thing I can think of and not good advice at all. It’s questionable how alcohol and sex mix.

    Edit: To not just write a silly thing… I think such an act is generally appreciated by your partner. So you’re automatically off in a positive way. And people like different things, so you’ll need to learn that nonetheless and you maybe don’t know everything in advance. Maybe just go with it? Sex isn’t supposed to be a performance act and you can adapt and look at your partner while at it. Make sure everyone is comfortable with doing it and some form of communication is going to help. I mean most of the times you should be able to tell whether someone likes something, once you started.

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      1 month ago

      Appreciate your advice. Just started laughing thinking about my talking to him while his cock is in my mouth

      • hendrik@palaver.p3x.de
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        1 month ago

        Hehe. I had that picture in my head as well. Though the communication is kind of the other way around here… And “communicate” is always easier said than done. I’m aware of that… I wish you the best. 😁 You do you, and try to have some fun yourself.