For both Men and Women, are you into roleplay? Have you tried it? If so, what scenarios have you tried? What scenarios would you like to try?
My wife and I try to keep things fresh by creating roleplay scenarios, not all the time but once in a while spontaneously. I’ve been the plumber who comes to unclog the kitchen sink, the massage therapist, she’s played the professional business woman/ proper wife who picked up the bad boy (Me) at a bar, and many more. One of the best was, I was in the garage changing the oil on her truck, she unzipped my shorts, sucked me hard, rode me till I came, while I (tried) finishing the oil change, on the creeper, then got up and walked away.
We just did this tonight! We kind of meta role play though. Like tonight he said something like we should play message parlor sometime and then instead of doing it, it was like “yes, you’d be like, I need to relieve this tension” and he says, “yeah, I’d go up your leg just a little too far at first” like we’re fooling around and writing a script together but not actually being the characters, we’re just ourselves discussing what we’d do if we were playing massage parlor?
Wait, is that just dirty talk? He was acting out the motions, but that’s how we take the pressure off the acting part of it
That’s perfect, sounds like how you set a scene for any kind of play, set agreements and expectations.