Think of it as an illness, not a perfectly rational decision. You don’t think “why did that person choose to get a cold”. Or the way people “choose” to be gay.
I chose to be gay, and it’s been the best decision I could have made. Although my early experiences were hetero only, but now I know better what I’m all about - yes a choice was made, and I keep telling people that choice is a BIG part of deciding what your orientation will be.
Anyway it’s been a huge blessing for me, a reason I get up feeling happy and looking forward to another wonderful day.
Think of it as an illness, not a perfectly rational decision. You don’t think “why did that person choose to get a cold”. Or the way people “choose” to be gay.
I chose to be gay, and it’s been the best decision I could have made. Although my early experiences were hetero only, but now I know better what I’m all about - yes a choice was made, and I keep telling people that choice is a BIG part of deciding what your orientation will be.
Anyway it’s been a huge blessing for me, a reason I get up feeling happy and looking forward to another wonderful day.