I see a lot of people saying it’s “okay” to be a virgin at 22, or if you’re 22 and have never been in a relationship, it’s “okay.” But it really isn’t. Most people lose their virginity when they’re teens, and most people get into their first relationships in high school. So if there’s a 22-year-old out there who’s still single, never been in a relationship, and is a virgin, they’re an outlier. They’re an anomaly, and it is something to feel bad and shameful about. It’s like never getting your driver’s license until you’re 21 or something. But it’s okay to feel bad and shameful—this can motivate you to make better decisions in life.
No woman at all? None? Do you have a source of that? Is there a survey you can point to? Do believe that there are no women in that age range who also lack sexual experience?
I know for a fact that there are a lot of adult men who look for a lack of experience in their partners. There is a smaller number of women who look for the same, but they are out there. Actually, my own first experience was with someone who called herself a virgin hunter. It turns out she preferred virgins because she was bad at sex, but that’s beside the point.