• 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️@yiffit.net
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    3 days ago

    You’d think, as a terminally online person and a moderator (not just here but I was one on some Reddit communities, too), I’d run into the super awful shit like CP once in a while. I haven’t accidentally stumbled onto shit like that since I was, like, 15 and the Internet was like the Wild West.

    I don’t really think that’s all moderators doing. There’s a ton of automation in a lot of shit now that can detect CP and other illegal content and prevent it from showing up. The humans doing the job tend to be the most literal-minded dipshits that can’t grasp the concept of context, satire, or sarcasm.

  • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
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    3 days ago

    I detest moderators, I do not trust them, I do not want them skewing my reality, get out GET OUT, I don’t want your help, I don’t want you, I don’t like you I rather wade through a terabyte of spam and cheese pizza than tolerate you silently altering my worldview one more fucking time.

    • MoogleMaestro@lemmy.zip
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      3 days ago

      It’s literally crazy to say something like this on Lemmy of all places.

      Don’t like moderators? Fine, try to host your own instance and your own communities. You’ll find quickly that it turns to shit because it’s actually pretty hard to do well.

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        3 days ago

        Don’t care, hard disagree, I rather complete chaos than a boot on my throat.

        I can handle chaos just fine.

        It’s my decision, moderation should only ever be an optional subscription service rather than a jackbooted imposition.

    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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      3 days ago

      I somewhat agree, but I do think there needs to be some form of moderation.

      I’m interested in individual-directed moderation, where you can pick your own moderators and have your feed be altered based on how people you trust have moderated content. My issue with moderators isn’t moderation itself, but with biases that I disagree with. If I could swap the moderators of my favorite communities, I think I would have a better overall experience.

      • 11111one11111@lemmy.world
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        3 days ago

        I agree. I wish there was a way that moderating existed but you could have the option to see what is being moderated. Fuck I’d even pay premium for that type of elevated privilege option.

      • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
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        3 days ago

        Yes, moderation filtering as a subscription service.

        Crowd sourced moderation.

        Raw feed always available on my device, I get the last word at all time on my moderation filters and content discovery algorithm,

        offline, on device and nobody else ever knows what my choices are.

        That’s the absolute bare minimum that I would find tolerable.

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          3 days ago

          Insert family guy meme when he walks out of the stem cell clinic, “why aren’t we funding this?!?!”

          As I said in my higher comment, I’d pay for this type of elevated privlege option to see what is being moderated.

        • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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          3 days ago

          Yup, that’s my dream too. I’ve started working on something like that, but it’s far from production quality. I hope someone beats me to it, because I haven’t been making near enough progress.

  • LunchMoneyThief@links.hackliberty.org
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    3 days ago

    Apparently I would make a really awesome moderator because seeing gore and shit doesn’t “scar me for life”. In fact, I seek it out out of morbid curiosity. Too bad I don’t have the requisite lust for power needed to be a moderator.

    • surph_ninja@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      That’s like saying ‘I would be a great candy store clerk, because I love eating sugary snacks.’ Eventually you end up sick or diabetic.

      The human brain can only handle so much. While we all have different tolerance levels, we still have a breaking point. We’re just primates, after all.

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    5 days ago

    Well, it’s one of those things where you either learn to compartmentalize, or you quit fast.

    I moderated forums back in the early days of the internet. It was rough some days, to the point I had someone show up at my house because I wouldn’t let them abuse other users.

    I moderated on reddit, and it was both easier and worse. People like to complain, but automod being able to filter out so much of the worst without having to see it at all made the job bearable. If I’d had to wade through the bigotry, the worst slurs, and similar stuff that a well crafted automod rule could magic away, I wouldn’t have done it at all.

    But the fact that you have to constantly adjust the automod to catch up with the most persistent assholes is draining.

    And that’s not getting into the stuff that isn’t hate speech, misogyny, bigotry, and that kind of infection. People think they can say anything they want, any way they want, and you stopping them means you’re the asshole, even after that went on a rant about fucking someone’s wife and kids (seriously, that’s a ban I had to make) because someone didn’t agree with their opinion of a flashlight. Seriously, that fucking happened.

    Point being that while there are mods that go too far, the internet, and places like reddit or lemmy, would be unbearable without it. There has to be someone making those calls, keeping things from turning into the non stop scroll of venom and porn that used to be way too common back in the day.

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    5 days ago

    I tried to moderate in a large subreddit and all I did was protect people who I did not like, or who got into slap fights. Quit after a few months.

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      3 days ago

      You did the right choice this is not a proper thing to waste your life on and the people you did it for don’t want it either.

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    5 days ago

    I was a moderator on a web forum many years ago. I also had my own forums for a while. Some of the stuff that people would post probably scarred me for life. It was a time when things like rotten.com and goatse were popular. I can only imagine what it’s like now on a big web site like reddit where they probably have a lot more traffic.

  • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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    5 days ago

    Probably wouldn’t be such a high cost in ð first place if ðey didn’t hoover up every open mod spot for ð power trip

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      5 days ago

      I was only a mod on 1 subreddit and the vial stuff people would post to be assholes was sad, like they had nothing better to do then search for nasty gore shit to post on a nice meme sun because they were offended by others happiness.

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        5 days ago

        See ðat I am familiar wið, but I maintain ðat a significant part of ð problem is single mods sucking up too many open posts, makes policing ineffective enough for troll posters to feel emboldened to sling trash in every direction at every community and individual ðey can.

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    5 days ago

    I can imagine having to go through hours to days worth of post related to hatespeech alone. How many months has Lemmy been around now?

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      Having done it for a living for a few months, you cannot possibly imagine how bad it gets.

      No, seriously. I already had very little faith in humanity going in, and thought I’d seen the worst the internet had to offer. Scraping the actual bottom of the barrel is difficult to even describe. I had to force a stunned sense of humor about it to detach myself a bit as a coping mechanism.

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      5 days ago

      I think it’s actually been around for three or four years, but I didn’t start using it until the Reddit API stuff last June (2023).